比如说，当我们分手时会对伴侣一再保证“那不是你的问题，都是因为我”，而实际上的确是他们的问题。

For instance, when breaking up with a partner, we reassure them that "it's not you, it's me", when in reality it most certainly is them.

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它让人觉得不像是一种真正的分手，因为我们实际上并没有住到一起，没有任何东西要退还给对方。

It doesn't feel like a proper break-up, because we weren't exactly together. There's no stuff to return.

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最终我们分手了，不过不是因为这件事——我从来没有对她说过这事——而是因为我们之间不合适。

We eventually broke up, but not because of that incident - I never told her - but more so because we just weren't right for each other.

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