她以前有过一段婚姻，是同一位中国男士，她曾经约会过别的外国人，我也不是第一个和她有长期关系的外国男子。

I am not the first foreign man she has had a long relationship with. She has also been married before to a Chinese man so she has a balanced frame of reference.

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一个男子拦住我问我是不是提前知道结果。

One man stops me to ask if I know of any early results.

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我可以了解她正在考虑我是不是就是那个独一无二的男子，或者有没有一个更好的男人，一种完全不同的人生，正在某处等着她。

I could tell she was wondering if I was the right man, or if there was a better man, a different life, waiting out there somewhere.

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