在春天还没有过去之前我一定会去的，就在那儿，记住，不是在教堂屋檐下林惇家族的中间，而是在露天，竖一块墓碑。你愿意去他们那儿，还是到我这儿来，随你便！

There it is: not among the Lintons, mind, under the chapel roof, but in the open air, with a headstone; and you may please yourself, whether you go to them or come to me!

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“但是记住，”她说，“我一定会锁上小屋的房门拒绝那些猎人，所以当你晚上回来的时候，敲门，我将不会让你进来，直到你说：亲爱的小妹妹让我进来吧。”

"But remember," she said, "I must lock the cottage door against those huntsmen, so when you come back in the evening, and knock, I shall not admit you, unless you say, 'Dear little sister let me in."

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或者“我一定会......” 的时候，记住，你安放的这张安全网是以放弃随机应变的思考的权利为代价的。

So when you start lecturing yourself with “I will never again…” or “I will always…”, remember that you’re placing that safety net at the expense of abdicating the right to think situationally.

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