这些教训非常重要，因为它们是我们成长的方式，也是我们避免再次犯同样错误的方式。

These lessons are very important; they're how we grow, and how we keep from making that same mistake again.

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如果你能改变你成长的方式，你会去改变什么？

If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

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父亲，母亲，小家庭——这是我们塑造灵魂的方式，成长的方式，让我们感到安全，被保护和爱的方式。

Father, mother, smallfamily -- that's the way we've developed our souls, the way we've become, andthe way we feel safe, protected and loved.

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Is that a way to measure spiritual growth?

有没有方式能够衡量灵性方面的成长？

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