我的小小的忍受寂寞的秘密。

My secret little ways of tolerating my aloneness.

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拣尽寒枝不肯栖，寂寞沙洲冷。（挑遍了寒枝也不肯栖息，甘愿在沙洲忍受寂寞和寒冷。）

Have picked time the cold branch also is unwilling to perch , put up with is willingly lonely and chill in the sandbar.

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因此当察觉到可能很快会分手时，与其去忍受悲伤，寂寞或是罪恶感，不如去感受由一个新人带来的兴奋感。

So, when suspecting there might be a breakup soon, it feels much better to be swept up in the excitement of a new person rather than tolerating feelings of sadness, loneliness or guilt.

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