那可以是我心里期望的，也可以不是。
当我要做一些事情来取悦别人，或者别人期望我做一些我不喜欢的事情时，我心里会涌起消极的情绪，因为这不是我。
When I'm expected to do something just to please someone else or there is some expectation to do something that I don't want to do, I get those surges of negative emotions.
只有未能到达所期望的地方才算失败——但如果你心里根本没有一个目的地，就不存在失败。
You only fail if you don't get to where you wanted to go - but if you don't have a destination in mind, there's no failure.
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