我们不愿看到自己工作效率低下、弱小或在各方面都有欠缺,而这正是失败给我们带来的感觉。
None of us likes to feel like we're ineffective weak or lacking in any way and that's exactly how failure makes us feel.
也许你会觉得这样的自己看起来很弱小——但其实,没有任何人独自完成一件事情,我们经常得到帮助(不管是精神支持还是物质支持)。
Perhaps you're afraid that you'll look weak – but the truth is, none of us achieve anything alone. We've always got support (whether emotional or practical) along the way.
小孩子最早的自我的信号其实就是表达需求的索取信号,大自然就是这样安排的,弱小的生命必须时刻关注自己的需要。
The first signal of ego is the signal to require STH that's Nature the weaker life must pay all its attention on its own requirement.
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