让他自己弄清楚这个词的意思是什么、那个问题的答案是什么以及各种说话做事的方法。如果他愿意的话，也可以让他在其他孩子的帮助下完成。

Let him figure out, with the help of other children if he wants it, what this word says, what is the answer to that problem, whether this is a good way of saying or doing this or that.

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有没有让他在家里帮助做事？

Get on his case about helping around the house?

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学校没有帮助他学会自己处理事情，反而指派了一个帮手到处跟着他，替他做事情。

Rather than helping him to do things himself, it assigned a helper to follow him around and do everything for him.

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