带给你快乐的那个人，就是也能带给你痛苦的人。
The man who bring you happiness, is the man who can bring you pain.
你的自然反应是难过或生气，带给你痛苦的是你的依恋。
The natural response is to be upset or angry, thereby causing suffering for yourself because of your attachment to it.
如果是这样，你必须做工作去改变自己的想法；也就是说，你为此付出的关系到他们能带给你快乐还是痛苦。
If so, you must work to change your beliefs; that is to say, the meaning you give to things related to pleasure or pain they bring you.
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