如果您觉得你的父亲不是一个及格的父亲，那么孝顺并不意味着您去认同他的不负责任、工作狂和家庭暴力，也不是让你去否认那些父亲做的错事和对你造成的伤害。

If you feel that he has failed you, honoring him doesn't mean endorsing his irresponsibility, workaholism or abuse; you're not denying what he did wrong or the pain he caused you.

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我对你那不负责任的话已经厌倦了，你老丢东西只因为你既健忘又粗心。

I'm fed up with your irresponsible words. You are always losing things simply because you are forgetful and careless.

youdao

你对学校和你的未来不负责任。

You're not committed to school or your future.

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