或许你应该仔细想想自己的言行对他人的影响哦。
You may want to reflect upon how your words and actions affect others.
可是,当你在干这些时,你是否也意识到了自己对他人的影响力?
But do you also realize the power that you have towards other people when they see you doing this?
我们低估了展示和掌控自我命运的能力,也低估了自己对他人的影响力。
We underestimate how we can manifest and control our own destiny, as well as the effect that we can have on others.
A second question is, "What are the effects of being judged that way?"
第二个问题是,“他人对你的看法,会对你产生什么影响?”
In other words, we should not care what people say about us, but we should be prepared to develop qualities of self-containment, autonomy and independence from the influence that others can exercise over us.
换句话说,我们不应理会别人怎么说我们,而我们应准备好,发展自制的特质,自治与自主,排除他人,可能对我们的影响。
This brings us to the final-- the issue of expectations and how we judge people is a story that could be told about individuals but it's also a story that could be told about groups.
这让我们谈到最后一个问题-,关于期望的问题,我们如何评价他人,不仅对个人有影响,对群体也会有影响。
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