不要欺骗自己认为你能够操纵外在事件。

Train your intentions rather than fooling yourself into thinking you can manipulate outside events.

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如果这点你做到了，你就不会遭受外在事件的打击。

If you do this, you won't be buffeted about by outside events.

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她说，即使是闻名遐迩之人，也极难看出外在事件对其内心造成的影响。

Even the eminent, she says, show little sign of the inner consequences of outward affairs.

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