反之，要把责任揽在你自己身上。

Instead, put the burden on yourself.

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你只能应对发生在你自己身上的事情。

You can only deal with what happens to you.

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请在你自己身上观察这一点。

Please watch this in yourself.

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Now,when I think about this,and again, I'm inviting you to think about this in the first person, so this is happening to you.

当我想到这个问题，我再次请各位把自己代入进去，把这当作发生在你身上的事情。

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You think that you're terrific and because you're terrific the good things that happen to you are due to your terrific-ness; the bad things are due to accident and misfortune.

你觉得自己很棒,因为你很棒，所以发现在你身上的好事,都是因为你很棒才会发生的;,而坏事都是因为意外或倒霉。

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