不过我认为，你未必是很要强：看着自己的孩子失败是一件可怕的事，孩子年龄越大就越糟糕，因为你也无能为力。

I don't think you're necessarily pushy: it's horrid to watch your child fail, and the older the child the worse, as there is little you can do.

youdao

我只有选择放弃因为我已经无能为力你知道吗！

I only choose to give up because I already incapable for dint do you know!

youdao

放轻松，别紧张，因为我们无能为力。放轻松，别紧张。归咎于我或归咎于你。

Relax, take it easy, for there is nothing that we can do. Relax, take it easy. Blame it on me or blame it on you.

youdao