第三，寻找一个愿意坦诚指出你的缺点和盲点的人做导师。 因为人无完人。
Third, find a mentor who will be honest with you about your shortcomings and show you your blind spots, because everyone has them.
因为人无完人，即使你今天到我在南布朗克斯的老家转转，还会看到一半的男人留着浓密的胡子。所以如果不是“妈妈”告诉我要刮掉胡子，我根本不会想到这个问题。
If you walk through my old neighborhood in the South Bronx even today, half the men have these big mustaches, so I just never thought twice about it until my "mom" told me to get rid of it.
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