只有当朋友在高尔夫球场猝死时，他们才会来看医生，才会想到：“哎呀，如果这样的事能发生在自己身上，……”

They only come in when a friend drops dead on the golf course and they think, "Geez, if it could happen to him, …".

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我们遗忘了大部分发生在自己身上的事情。

We forget the vast majority of things that happen to us.

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我从不用消极的态度看待发生在自己身上的事情。

I don't allow myself to look at what happened to me in a negative way.

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With the scene of the flight of the pagan gods at the nativity of Christ Milton is also depicting a scenario that, I think, on some level he's hoping will occur within himself.

在《圣诞清晨歌》中有一个无宗教信仰的人逃跑的画面,我认为弥尔顿同时也在描绘一个剧情，某种程度上他希望这样的事情也会发生在自己身上。

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Now, I'll tell you a little personal story about my coming to Yale that relates to this experiment.

给你们讲一个和实验相关的故事，发生在我自己身上,想当年我来耶鲁求学。

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Now,when I think about this,and again, I'm inviting you to think about this in the first person, so this is happening to you.

当我想到这个问题，我再次请各位把自己代入进去，把这当作发生在你身上的事情。

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