你问别人孩子怎么样，在她回答之前，不要跳跃话题，又问人家家人的健康。

If you ask how someone's children are, don't jump in with your family health before she has answered.

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我看到，她对一个非亲非故的家庭的忠诚，我也看到，她对别人孩子的无私奉献与悉心爱护。

I saw fidelity to a family which was not hers, devotion and love for people she had not borne.

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他十分厌恶被别人当孩子对待。

He bitterly resents being treated like a child.

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But the self-esteem movement mostly says praise people,praise children all the time.

但关于提升自尊有个常见的说法,要经常赞美别人和孩子。

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Praise people. Praise children.

赞美别人，赞美孩子。

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