将你的生活和其他某个人进行比较总是会导致不满。
Comparing your life with someone else's will always lead to discontentment.
不管你决定了什么,那必须是你要的,不是其他某个人要你做的。
Whatever you decide, it needs to be what you want, not what someone else wants you to do.
除了私下里、态度认真地进行泛泛的赞美,如果赞美者能同时贬低其他某个人,也会有所帮助。
As well as making praise private , broad and serious , it helps if the praiser can slag off someone else at the same time.
It's the outcome of a race one's running faster than all of the other guys and it's as if to have a career at all one has no choice but to come in first.
这里讲的是一项竞赛的结果,某个人比其他所有人跑的都快,就好像这场竞赛中,除了第一你别无选择。
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