于是，有车的朋友经常会捎上没车的朋友去超市，去看医生，或者做其它杂事。
So the friends who did own cars used to give lifts to the supermarket, or to the doctor, or wherever, to those who did not.
Lyubomirsky举例说，相比买一辆新捷豹车，他们更愿意一周做一次按摩，买很送上门的鲜花，给欧洲的朋友打电话。
Instead of a new Jaguar, Professor Lyubomirsky advises, buy a massage once a week, have lots of fresh flowers delivered and make phone calls to friends in Europe.
或许你的车被卖了，或者你抵押贷款的房子被处理了，再或者你的朋友或者亲人甚至你自己正在跟病魔做斗争。
It may be that your car is being repossessed, the house is being foreclosed, a close friend or relative or even you yourself may be battling poor health.
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