父母也应该和孩子讨论独立性的问题。应该向孩子强调“做你自己”和“做你自己认为对的事情”的重要性。

When parents do this, they are able to see whether their children's friends are positive influences, and whether friends' families have values similar to their own.

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但是，不要因为别人会去做一件事就那么做，做你认为是对的事情，让自己更坚定一些，因为世界上不止你一个人有那样的感受。

Don't let them down, and never do something that someone else would do, do what you feel it's right thing to do. Be more emphatic, you are not the only person in the world with the feelings.

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Last attempt,I'm going to, after I drive you crazy and make you think you're Linda, I'm going to do the corresponding thing for Linda.

最后一招，在把你逼疯，让你认为自己是Linda后，我会对Linda做同样的事情。

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