倾听时，你可以点头示意你支持对方的观点。
While listening，you can nod your head to show you in favor of his/ her views.
清楚你想要什么，而且还努力认真倾听对方的观点。
Be clear about what you want, but also make the effort to listen carefully to opposing points of view.
当我们积极地倾听他人而不是急于发表自己观点时，对方会感到被重视、被欣赏和被理解，我们也会乐于看到对方的反应，我们会取得双赢。
When we actively listen to people instead of rushing to say our piece, they feel valued, appreciated and understood, and we feel pleased with their reaction. Everybody wins.
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