代沟这个可怕的东西，使家长心力交悴，使孩子默默寡言，它使人变得消极，使家庭失去了欢乐。

Generation gap this terrible thing, so that parents pay sad efforts to make children quietly reticent, it makes becomes negative, the family lost their joy.

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如果你是个胆怯的人，你容许恐惧使你变得消极悲观，请仔细听我说。

If you are a fearful person who allows your fears to make you negative and pessimistic, listen carefully.

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原本你很优秀，由于周围那些消极的人影响了你，使你缺乏向上的压力，丧失前进的动力而变得俗不可耐，如此平庸。

You were very excellent, however, because those negative people around you affected you, so the lack of upward pressures on you, lose the forward momentum and become tacky, so banal.

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