如果你不想听起来不礼貌，或对与你谈话的人造成任何形式的尴尬或窘迫，你应该学会在你的英语中使用委婉试探性的话语。

If you don't want to sound impolite, or cause embarrassment or distress of any kind to the person you're talking to, you should learn to use tactful and tentative forms in your English.

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不要对你谈话的对象太挑剔。

Don't be too picky about who you talk to.

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真正的敌人不是与你谈话的对象，是作战状态本身。

The real enemy is not your conversational counterpart, but the combat mentality itself.

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So finding spaces... -Yes What do you think... What kind of progression do you expect a student to have for their four years here?

要找到谈话的地方，-是的,你觉得。,在普里斯顿的四年大学生活中,你希望学生们经历怎样的进步呢？

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We usually use this pattern when the question that you're asking about relates directly to the person you're speaking with.

当你在询问与谈话对方直接有关的话题时，你可以使用这个句型。

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Talk to either your recitation instructor, come in and talk to me.

可以和你的背诵导师，也可以来我谈话。

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