通过严肃地研究,带着足够多的同情去看待它,你终会明白，它是无比合理的。

To keep looking at it seriously and to look at it with enough sympathy that you actually can see eventually how it is perfectly rational.

youdao

实际上，那是年纪大的人的优势之一，我认为，你最终会明白对你来说最重要。

In fact that's one of the advantages of old age, I suppose, that you've finally learned what matters to you.

youdao

你要明白的是，现在在你看来足以压垮你的痛苦，随着人生阅历的增长终会成为过去的一部分，在你的记忆中逐渐淡化。

What you need to understand is that an overwhelmingly painful event in your life right now will one day be part of your much larger past and not nearly as significant as it seems.

youdao