即使你真的有一些额外的时间(这对于我们大多数来说不太可能)，你真的想把时间花在这件事情上面吗？

Even if you do have some extra time (which for many of us is rare), is this new commitment really the way you want to spend that time?

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但是与此同时，你真的的清楚他们在这些关系中的本来面目吗？

But at the same time, can you really know what they are like as a person in a relationship?

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你真的相信可以像现在这么一直高强度地工作下去，不影响身体健康吗？

Do you honestly believe you can continue to work at the intensity you are currently at without it seriously affecting your health and well-being?

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