要以诚相待，我说过了，如果你们的约会并不开心，你也应当以诚相待（尽管不是很残忍）没有道理让某人一直等待---这样的话对你们来说最终也不会有什么好下场。

Having said that, if you had an awful time, you should still be honest (though not brutal). There is no point in leading someone on – it will end up badly for both of you.

youdao

(如果你是在做工作的一个彻底的变化的话，这种情况可能也是有道理，可以理解的)。

If you are making a radical career change, however, this kind of disparity may be more reasonable and understandable.

youdao

如果你仔细想想的话还是有道理的。

This makes sense if you think about it.

youdao