不是你的父母，不是你的过去的恋情，也不是你的工作，而是你自己，只有你自己对你设定的每一个目标负责。

It's not your parents, your past relationships or your job, but you and only you that are responsible for every goal you set.

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如果你的父母鼓励你从现在开始做一点包装和清洁工作，这将是有帮助的。

It would be helpful if your parents encourage you to do a little packing and cleaning from now on.

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作为父母，在子女找工作中，你可以起到很有帮助的辅助作用。

As a parent, you can play a helpful role in assisting your child search for jobs.

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Workplaces that some that your parents' generation may have grown up understanding as a very personal place.

工作的地方,你父母那代长大后,会明白工作车间的私人化含义

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