你无法改变已经发生的事情，但你可以防止它再次发生。

You can't change what's already happened, but you can prevent it from happening again.

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如果在你尝试了所有的方法后仍然不起作用，接受这个事实：总有一些事情是你无法改变的。

If it doesn't work after you've tried everything, accept that there are always things you can't change.

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老人继续说：“过去的都过去了。该来的就来吧。你无法改变。但你可以决定享受真正拥有的这一刻。”

The old man continued, "What's gone is gone. What's to come is to come. You can't change it. But you can decide to enjoy this very moment that you truly have."

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You're not going to alter how much pleasur you enjoyed previously, how much suffering you've undergone previously.

你无法改变,从前得到的多少快乐，从前遭受多少痛苦。

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The idea of probability theory is that no, you can't change things, there are all these objective laws of probability out there that guide everything.

而概率论的观点是,不,你无法改变事物,世间万物遵循客观的概率,它们即是定律

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.. What you can't change, loses-- when you focus on the fact that you can't change it, it loses some of its grip to upset you.

你无法改变的-,当你专注于”你无法改变它“这个事实，它就不会让你那么难受。

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