我认为，如果你选择生活在社会中，就不可能完全拥有自我，因为你不能无视周围的人的存在。

I think that you don't really have self possession if you choose to live in a society because you cannot just discount the people around you.

youdao

但我个人认为，掌握这些技巧还是很有用的，它能让你拥有更多的选择。

Personally though, I find it a useful skill to have because it opens up your options.

youdao

你拥有比你认为的要多的选择。

You have more options than you think.

youdao

I think that you don't really have self possession if you choose to live in a society because you cannot just discount the people around you.

我认为如果你选择生活在社会中,就不可能完全地自我拥有,因为你不能无视其他人的存在。

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