他们跟我说你拒绝送她去教堂和学校。

They have told me that you refuse to send her to church and to school.

youdao

你是告诉我你拒绝了？

Am I to understand that you refuse?

《牛津词典》

如果你说“不”，即使是出于礼貌，你也可能会抑制（其他人）进一步的想法，不仅是那个记者的想法，还有那些听说你拒绝了这一想法的人的想法。

If you say no, even politely, you risk inhibiting further ideas, not just from that reporter, but from others who heard that you turned down the idea.

youdao

Maybe you are scared to get rejected; well, I can't reject you, you're too quick for me!

也许你害怕被拒绝;,我无法拒绝你，你变得太快！

哈佛公开课 - 幸福课课程节选

Actually, for any form of discipline with a kid is to say, " "No, absolutely not.

实际上无论你用何种方式拒绝他，说，“不，绝对不行。

耶鲁公开课 - 心理学导论课程节选

The antiquity of a law alone is no justification for its usage. Aristotle seems to reject you might say Burkean conservatism long before the time.

法律的古老性不能作为其用法的借口,亚里士多德似乎事先拒绝,你可能会说柏克式的保守主义,古老与传统并不能。

耶鲁公开课 - 政治哲学导论课程节选