那好哇，你抱怨什么，那条小鱼不是还在那里吗！

That good, you complained, the fish is still there!

youdao

但是我想很多时候，女人觉得很挫败是因为男人总是重复一件事：“孩子们很好，很健康很快乐，我们有个漂亮的房子，你抱怨什么呢？”

But I think a lot of times women feel frustrated because men are just oblivious to the issue: "the kids are fine, happy and healthy, we got a nice house, why are you complaining?"

youdao

你在抱怨什么呢？

What are you moaning on about now?

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