如果你的孩子能够理解你曾经也是一个难看不完美的孩子时，当他们告诉你成长中的不安全感，恐惧迷茫和担忧时，他们会觉得更有安全感。
If your child is able see you as the gangly, imperfect tween that you were, they'll feel more comfortable sharing their own insecurities, fears, questions, or concerns about growing up.
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