你虽不能左右他人的想法，但却可以通过控制自己的反应来避开这些谈话雷区。

You’re not likely to change each other’s minds, but you can navigate these minefields by controlling your reactions.

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由于这种全新体验会让你和你的爱人之间的关系受到左右，你一定要在事前搞清楚哪些是她能够接受和而哪些是你千万不能做的。

Because your relationship with your woman will likely be affected by this new experience, you need to be absolutely clear on which ACTS she's comfortable with — and what to avoid doing — in advance.

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你要造就你自己的命运，而不能让那些诸如“机会”这样的小概率事件左右你人生的方向。

You have to create the course of your own destiny and not let chance determine your direction.

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