想清楚你想传达的是哪种能量，但不要说出来。

Figure out which kind of energy you want to send, but don't say what it is.

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但不要说他被谋杀了或者遇害了。

But do not say he was murdered or he was killed.

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问我的名字就行了，但不要说得太大。

Ask for me by name but don't say my name aloud.

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As I say, don't worry about any of those details now, but it's a point to keep in mind as you read the dialogues.

我之前说过,不要过多拘泥于细枝末节,但在阅读对话时应该谨记,细节很重要

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