然而很不幸的是，我们会倾向于记住那些负面的情绪而不是我们已取得的成功，比如下棋失败或受到羞辱。
Unfortunately, we tend to retain the unpleasant events more easily, such as loos in chess and humiliation, than our success.
我们会因为许多原因传播负面言论，但这些言论最终会直接或间接地导致不按“常规方式”上班的同事感到羞辱。
We sludge for many reasons, but it's ultimately meant to either directly or indirectly shame a coworker for not approaching work the way it's "supposed" to be approached.
事实上，我们对羞辱上的恐惧越屈从，我们的思维方式越会保证让我们感到羞辱。
In fact, the more we obey our fear of shame, the more our frame of mind guarantees we'll feel humiliated.
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