她说，我们与家人之间靠血缘关系维系，和配偶之间靠法律关系维系，所以我们对家人和配偶更用心；友谊则是你选择的，所以我们往往会忽 视。

We are tied to our family by blood and our spouses by law, so we are often more attentive to those relationships. 'Friendships are relationships of choice, so we tend to overlook them,' she says.

youdao

因为这种说法相当模糊，所以我将尽力通过解释sca与你所提到的那些技术之间的关系来让这种说法具体化。

Since this is a rather vague statement, I will try and make it concrete by addressing SCA's relationship to the technologies you mention above.

youdao

所以我在思考其实它是否本身是一件装饰品，甚至像一把象征性很强的剑之类的，能衬托出你的勇气与力量，或者用来引吸女士的注意力呢。

So I wonder actually if it's a decorative thing, or even something like a ceremonial sword to make you look brave, powerful, and maybe to pull women.

youdao

So I've often wondered if we're to read this differently: Who am I? I am who I am, and never you mind.

有常想如果我们以不同的方式解读：,我是谁？，我就是我，与你无关。

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