对别人的控制欲可以分成好几个阶段，最糟糕的阶段是仇恨阶段，最好的阶段是中立
There are several stages of wanting to control others, the worst one being hatred and the best one being neutrality-appreciation.
而即使在合适的时间，控制怨恨——当忿怒与仇恨的潮水退去，心境恢复常态——可能还需要花点时间和练习。
Even when it is the right time, it may take time and practice as the tides of anger and hate will bring you back to holding the grudge.
他先用恐惧控制这个男孩儿，再教他如何拥抱自己的仇恨和其它原始情感。
He first controlled the boy through fear, then taught him to embrace his hatred and other base emotions.
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