我建议你们读读Gary Chapman的书：五种爱的语言。

I would recommend that you read Gary Chapman's book, The Five Love Languages.

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加里·查普曼把它们称为“五种爱的语言”，它们对于人际关系是至关重要的。这些语言十分简单，这五种不同的语言是：珍惜、肯定的语句、礼物、服务、肢体接触。

Gary Chapman calls them the "five languages of Love", and while these are indeed important to your personal relationship, these languages simply put, the five different languages are.

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Chapman相信有五种主要的方式来表达和接受爱：通过礼物、触摸、行动、语言和时间。

Chapman believes that there are five main ways in which we all give and receive love: through gifts, touch, actions, words and time.

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