但本书的编写有个基本前提，就是大部分女性虽然与她们的伴侣之间关系平等和谐，但一旦有了孩子，女性常常得不到平等的对待，她们比男方要承担更多的抚养孩子的义务，成为了事实上家庭里的“苦力”。

So do a lot of fathers, despite the basic premise of the book—that most women who set off on a footing of equality with their partners are betrayed by them when babies arrive.

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