“除非孩子们知道自己是谁、来自什么地方，否则，一切都是装出来的，”礼仪专家贝蒂·乔·特拉基玛斯说。

"Unless that child feels grounded in who he is and where he comes from, everything else is an act," says etiquette expert Betty Jo Trakimas.

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1982年贝蒂在加州兰乔米拉奇成立了贝蒂福特戒毒戒酒中心，她经常会告诉患者说：“我就是贝蒂，一个酒鬼加瘾君子。”

There she would tell patients: “Hi, I’m Betty. I’m an addict and an alcoholic.”

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朵布斯，贝蒂乔提特。《从牛顿的炼金术到他的物质理论》，315 - 24页。

Dobbs, Betty Jo Teeter. "From 'Newton's Alchemy and His Theory of Matter,'" pp. 315-24.

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