大约在这个时候，我开始和一个中国男人在一个乐队里演奏，他成了我在北京最好的朋友之一。

Around this time, I started playing in a band with a Chinese man who became one of my best friends in Beijing.

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没想过。我认为中国男人是世界上最好的爱人。

No, I think Chinese men are the world's best lovers.

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中国传统的思想观念认为，男人为事业而活、而女人则为爱情而活。

In China, the traditional mindset is that men live for their careers and women live for love.

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