的说法比“你不该灰心丧气，这对你没有好处!” 要好。

For example:” Do you think putting yourself down all the time is motivating you?" is better than saying:” You shouldn't put yourself down -- it doesn't help."

youdao

那不该是让人灰心的---找份新工作的确很难，而且旷日持久，常常可能会长达数月---但它也确实说明了为什么你需要让你的求职变得又组织（井井有条）。

That shouldn’t be discouraging — finding a new job is hard work and could take months — but it does illustrate why you need to be organized about your job hunt.

youdao