比如说，你跟我一样，工作要时常用到电脑，那么身边一定不要有不必要的文书或杂志之类的东西，这样会分散你的注意力。

So if like me you are working at a computer a lot then make sure there are is no unnecessary paperwork, magazines etc around you which could distract you.

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黛妮告诉我：“我做了我所能做的一切确保她不要像我一样的生活，但是现在她还是走了跟我一样的路。”

“I had done everything I could to make sure she didn't end up like me, and now this,” she told me.

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孩子的第二个问题未必会问出口，可是不要怀疑这个问题的存在：“如果你们生活在一起不能感到快乐，那跟我在一起会不会也一样呢？”

The second question may be unasked, but don’t doubt that it is in your child’s mind: “If you can stop being happy together, can you stop being happy with me?”

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