虽然过去的事无法轻易忘记，但我还是建议你提醒自己：不管发生了什么，都是过去的事了，没有什么可以改变它。

While they can't merely be willed away, I do recommend you remind yourself that whatever happened is in the past, and nothing can change that.

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不管发生了什么，都不是你的错。

Whatever happened, it wasn't your fault.

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记住，不管发生了什么，你都不要，不要放弃，直到成功。

Resolve that, no matter what happens, you will never, never give up until you are successful.

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Even if quantum mechanics was wrong and somehow, you know, at the macro level all the indeterminism boils out-- whatever-- and at the macro level we are deterministic systems, so what?

即便量子力学是错的,而且不知怎的,在宏观水平上,所有的非决定性都蒸发了,不管发生了什么,在宏观水平上我们都成了决定论的系统,那又如何

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There's a benefit to me above and beyond the question of what's going on within my life-- am I loved, am I accomplishing things, ? am I having nice experiences or not?

不管我的生活里发生了什么事,我都能得到好处-,不管我是否被爱，是否有成就，或者我的经历是否愉快？

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