爱会告诉我们如何去做，而不是反过来。

That love tells us what to do, not the other way around.

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我们等着别人来服侍我们，而不是反过来。

We expect others to serve us, not vice versa.

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他有权柄告诉你该做什么，不该做什么，而不是反过来。

He has the right to tell you what to do, not vice versa.

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And it turns out that this version people are slower at than the other version suggesting that their associations run one way and not the other.

结果发现在第二个实验中,人们比第一个实验时的反应要慢,这表明他们倾向于把白人和好词,把黑人和坏词联系一起，而不是反过来。

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