但是，这种更大的亲近并不是全受欢迎。

But this greater closeness may not be entirely welcome.

youdao

找寻一种感觉，甚至是与基督亲近的感觉都不是敬拜。

Seeking a feeling, even the feeling of closeness to Christ, is not worship.

youdao

我们都习惯走去上班,不是真的一起去上班,我们从未碰面,但我总觉得和他很亲近

He and I both used to walk into work together not together, I never really met him, but I always felt an affinity to him.

youdao

We are basically committed to each other for sex but it's very hard to make those relationships last a long time because we might not have anything in common, we might not share anything with each other, we might not trust each other, we are not particularly bonded to each other.

我们基本上只有激情的承诺,长时间维持这种关系很困难,因为可能双方没有任何共同点，没有共享的东西，我们可能互不信任，不是特别亲近。

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