人重要的不在于他们拥有什么，而在于他们是什么样的人。

People matter because of what they are, not what they have.

《柯林斯英汉双解大词典》

问题不在于你说什么，而在于你怎么说。

It's not what you say, it's the way that you say it.

《牛津词典》

也许写一篇完美的文章的意义不在于放弃，而在于永不放弃。

Perhaps the point of writing a flawless essay was not to give up, but to never willingly finish.

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So I think that it's more like how you spend your time doing stuff to have an answer than like something that I've learned specifically from college.

这事的关键就在于,如何支配时间,而不在于习得的具体技能。

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So the secret to personal identity on this new proposal isn't sameness of body, is sameness of personality.

所以新提案中人格同一性的关键,不在于同样的肉体,而在于同样的人格。

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The difference between the extremely happy people and extremely unhappy people is not that one gets sad, of upset, or anxious, or depressed; and the other does not.

极其快乐的人和极其不快乐的人,区别不是在于一个会伤心，难过，焦虑或抑郁;,而另一个不会。

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