现在，如果你真的有足够的勇气来过这样的生活(而不是只为了自己而过一种安定的生活)，那么周围的人一定会注意到你。

Now if we are brave enough to actually live this way, (instead of just living a safe life of comfort for ourselves), others will undoubtedly notice. This is where it gets even tougher.

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他决定与他的伴侣过一种更为安定的生活。

He decided to lead a more settled life with his partner.

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