个体会发明一些描述性的，诗意的用语来描述这种直接性及相反的特性：“我做一切对的事情，但我不在里面”；

Descriptive and poetic terms are usually invented by individuals to describe immediacy and its opposites: "I do everything right, but I'm not in it";

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但是你的感受是你对生活以及生活中的一切的体会——它与你生活中发生的事情以及这些事情对你造成的影响紧密相连。

But your feelings are where you experience your life and everything in it - they're your connection with what's happening in your life and the impact that everything has on you.

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我们还学会了衰老是件可怕的事情，出于对被遗弃感和失去影响力的恐惧，我们必须不顾一切和衰老作斗争。

We're also taught that aging is terrible, and we must do everything to combat the process in fear of being discarded and losing our power.

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So, Humbert's lack of a moral vocabulary to understand what he's doing makes it seems like it's trivialized.

所以，Humbert缺乏对道德准则的理解,他所做的事情让这一切似乎被平凡化了。

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The philosopher Spinoza thought that ... if we could only recognize the fact, what he at least took to be the fact, that everything that happens in life is necessary, then we'd get a kind of emotional distance from it; it would no longer upset us.

哲学家Spinoza认为,如果我们能够认识到这个事实，至少他认为这是事实，即生活中的一切事情都是必然的，那么它对我们的情绪影响就比较少;,它不会再让我们感到痛苦。

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