但是这并非那么不寻常。我的一个心理学家朋友告诉我，很多在童年受过心理创伤的人会陷入自我批评中。

But it is not uncommon; a friend who works as a psychologist has told me many survivors of childhood abuse blamed themselves.

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这是一个有点松散的时间，和朋友去野炊、去跳舞或做一些不寻常的事会是很刺激有趣的。

This is a time for getting a little loose and wild with friends, going dancing, or doing something out of the ordinary that is stimulating and fun.

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你看的更不寻常的你得到更多的关注，所以打扮或向下，视乎你想聊了起来整夜或只花一个有趣的晚上与朋友跳舞。

The more unusual you look the more attention you get, so dress up or down depending on whether you want to get chatted up all night or just spend a fun evening dancing with friends.

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